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Saturday, January 23, 2010

The Big Reveal

I picked up my dress! It was the first time I had seen it in the satin (I tried it on in a pearlized taffeta, and the store was kind enough to order the dress for me in an ivory satin instead), and I was nervous about how the different fabric would translate.

(I would like to preface this statement by letting you know how completely irrational this is:) I had totally convinced myself that this dress was not going to fit me. I was positive it would way, way too small and I would be totally humiliated. The dress actually turned out to be way too big! Which is really throwing me off by the way. But you be the judge:



Please excuse the lighting!


With the flowers I made:



And with the shoes:



Before I ask you what you think, keep in mind that this dress needs alterations. A hem is crucial (even with the shoes we're going to take about and inch and a half off, I'm petite!), the bust doesn't fit all, the straps are too long and there is an extra inch of fabric around my hips. I know I haven't lost any weight since I ordered this dress in September, so I guess the fabric switch explains it! I was so convinced it would be too small that I'm really shocked at how it fits. The bridal salon people told me to wait until at least May to start the alterations process, but patience is not a virtue I possess and I want to start now, to assuage my fears. Because, true to my endlessly indecisive nature, I still don't know if I made the right choice. I think that getting the dress fit to my body is going to make me feel better about my decision. My weight stays within a 3 pound range and has for over a year now, and I don't plan on losing any weight anyway, so I think I'd be safe getting it altered now.

So, what do you think? Is the satin too much? Has your dress come in yet? Do you suffer with constant indecision? Did you question your decision like I am?

21 comments:

  1. I think the dress looks fabulous! I love it! It's so frustrating when the dress doesn't fit...you just want to know what the final product is going to look like! And I am totally indecisive...I still haven't found my dress!

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  2. I L-O-V-E IT!! Seriously, it's so gorgeous on you. I'm a little jealous! lol. This might be weird but it looks fantastic on your butt area too. Great dress!!

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  3. my friend - IT IS GORGEOUS!!!! it's beautiful as it is now and can only improve once it hugs your figure more - don't second guess and dont look back - it is beautiful and you are absolutely beautiful in it! I LOVE the back, really a beautiful cut and a beautiful dress - be excited!!!

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  4. I think it’s gorgeous! I’ve had second thoughts about my choice a couple times, too, but I think it’s also because I haven’t seen my gown with the alterations yet. Yours will look stunning!

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  5. I LOVE IT!!!! I love it so so so so much! It's crazy that I've been following you so long that I remember when you were looking for dresses (and actually tried mine on!) Look at how far we've come :)

    Anyway, I think the satin is just lovely. The back of the dress makes you look bootylicious (which I'm sure the man will appreciate.) Once it's hemmed and all that it will look just perfect.

    As for alterations, for my dress I'm going to follow the advice of the dress shop and not do them until they said I should. I plan on losing some weight, though. If you're going to stay the same (tiny!) size, then you should have no problem doing yours now. So exciting!!

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  6. You look stunning, especially with the flowers. So far I still love my dress, no alterations yet.

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  7. Elegant and stunning all around. I am blown away with the cut, fabric and drape. Amazing dress choice, I would definitely stick with this.

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  8. Oh you look beautiful already and it doesn't even fit. It is going to look fabulous. I've a serious love for the ruching!

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  9. YAYAYYYYYYYY! I think I might've been more excited for your dress than mine. It's just so glamorous!!!! So happy for you- it really does look spectacular in that fabric!!! YAYYYYY!

    -kjpugs

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  10. ahhhhh! I LOVE IT. LOVE LOVE LOVE it. You look perfect. I am so jealous! And the flowers and shoes are just the icing on the cake...absolutely beautiful.

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  11. I LOVE it! It is so beautiful and glamorous!

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  12. Wow - looks great. I'd say go for alterations as soon as you can. I only had a few small changes, but the alterations lady was often booked and it took me nearly 2 months for it to be completely done. If you're weight doesn't fluctuate, then don't wait.

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  13. Ohhhh my gosh you look absolutely gorgeous!!! I love the dress, you look absolutely spectacular!!!!

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  14. Oh wow! Your dress is gorgeous!! I love it on you! I can see what you mean by the straps being too big, but thats all I notice in the pics. And with alterations it will be perfect on you! Congrats! How exciting!

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  15. The dress is beautiful! I felt the same exact feeling when my dress came in. My dress was HUGE, I had to hold it up so it wouldn't fall down. I have been biting my tongue waiting to get my dress altered (I'm going on Monday to get it started!). I'm sure you will love it after it is nipped and tucked to perfection. Beautiful selection!

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  16. WOW! I adore it. It's quite similar to my dress, especially at the bottom.

    I swear bridal stores ALWAYS make dresses in the wrong size so they can charge extra for alterations. Makes me so angry.

    I think once it fits like a glove you will be so happy. It looks great on you (even without it fitting perfectly).

    How exciting!

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  17. lol. Everyone will constantly suffer from indecision for the right dress. lol.
    However, if it makes you feel any better, that dress is beautiful on you. Classic and elegant. You really cannot go wrong. ;)

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  18. You look BEAUTIFUL and it's PERFECT for you! I love it. No, I don't think that the satin is too much...don't change a thing. Other than making it fit!

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