tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2134690819620849431.post1865619275009436928..comments2023-09-05T09:11:58.008-05:00Comments on You Can't Take It With You: Not CoolStacy Mariehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03251136207706318192noreply@blogger.comBlogger5125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2134690819620849431.post-78722536981872150732010-10-31T12:58:55.703-05:002010-10-31T12:58:55.703-05:00SO HORRIBLE!
I can't believe that the MOH of a...SO HORRIBLE!<br />I can't believe that the MOH of all people would drop out! Just remind her that she will be married next week and that's all that matters!!Sarahhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16541676276051047467noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2134690819620849431.post-46781192985244580052010-10-29T16:49:13.050-05:002010-10-29T16:49:13.050-05:00ugh. i had some unfortunate circumstances and some...ugh. i had some unfortunate circumstances and some bad behavior in my bridal party...all i can say is on the day i wasnt focusing on the people who werent there or who was acting out for whatever immature reason - i put the blinders up and focused on those who were proud to be there for me to keep me occupied, or entertained, or fed, or calm. in the end i had a peaceful intimate day because of it...i say, if you see drama now be thankful if it leaves the room on it's own...Kristyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12928917209075734716noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2134690819620849431.post-59767051605225081962010-10-29T13:02:09.137-05:002010-10-29T13:02:09.137-05:00So. Not. Cool.So. Not. Cool.The Thirty-Something Bridehttp://thethirtysomethingbride.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2134690819620849431.post-52862604960311199542010-10-29T09:50:09.838-05:002010-10-29T09:50:09.838-05:00If I've said it once, I'll say it again: ...If I've said it once, I'll say it again: weddings bring out the CRAZIES in people and you really find out who your friends are when you're planning one. This behavior is COMPLETELY SELFISH and that ex-MOH should feel totally and completely ASHAMED. RUDE, RUDE, RUDE--I am really pissed off for your friend! What a bitch, seriously. How selfish can you get?! If I could say one thing to that so-called friend, it would be this: Get over yourself--the wedding isn't about you, it's about your friend and her fiance. Any embarrassment you feel over your poor party-planning skills pales in comparison to the crap you just pulled on your friend. <br /><br />Melissa, I'll echo what Em said: I am so sorry this is happening to you. Try to remember that even though it's a sucky situation right now, at the end of next week, you will be a wife--married to your HUSBAND!! :) This "friend" may have hurt you now, but trust me--the love you will feel from others on your wedding day and these next few days leading up to it will trump anything that's going on right now. So hang in there, and know that in the end, it will all work out. And I'm sure your wonderful friend Stacy and your other bridesmaids will MORE than step up to the plate to ensure that your wedding is just as beautiful and joy-filled as you imagined it to be!Amyhttp://littlewedplanblog.wordpress.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2134690819620849431.post-21276073566139897942010-10-29T09:40:09.597-05:002010-10-29T09:40:09.597-05:00I know some people aren't the "cursing&qu...I know some people aren't the "cursing" type, but I am. So sorry for this if it offends anyone, but honestly, what.a.bitch. Who does that? Drops out of a damn wedding (as the MATRON OF HONOR?!?!?) a week before because SHE is embarrassed? Also, "matron" means she's married, right? So HELLO, you've gone through this before...have some respect for your fellow bride. Wow. I'm so upset for your friend.<br /><br />Melissa, honey, I'm so sorry. If I could hug you, I would (although I know you don't know me and it would be kind of creepy, but sometimes even a hug from a stranger makes things a little better). All of that "at the end of the day you'll still be married" BS probably sounds like, well, BS right now. But it's true. However, I know these things will stay with you this weekend at your bach party, next week in your final days of planning, at the rehearsal, and especially on your wedding day. Try your best to look for silver linings, for the "bright side." Embrace the love that's coming your way. Let other people worry about their problems because those problems are just that: their own, not yours. <br /><br />Your wedding day will be beautiful even if there are ugly feelings lurking. Luckily, you have the awesome Stacy by your side :)EmilyBhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03977456818179074757noreply@blogger.com